So you've got a mail stating somebody invited you to an invent via Facebook. Since you don't want to type that by hand, heres how to get the invitation into your calendar:
* click the link in that mail (or go to the event or go to the event via the webinterface of facebook)
* Right over 'Your Answer' there is 'Export'
* Click it, a popup opens
* choose to send it to your email account (which should end up on your citadel somehow)
* shortly after, you will find a mail in your mailbox with the subject 'Calendar entry for //some event//'
* Switch your Iconbar to Roomlisting mode
* open "My Rooms"
* drag the mail from your Inbox to your Calendar room.
Done! The next time you open your calendar, this Event will show up.